friends forever

assalamualaikum

yes, that is a very cute plate. most importantly,

what's written on it?

yes, friends forever is the entry today.

many of you are so well blessed with a good and strong bond between friends. 

so many of us are in contact with kindergarten-mates, school mates

university mates, room mates, ex-boyfriend/girlfriend and lastly,

your cliques at work.

kalau dilihat, persahabatan antara perempuan sama perempuan sangat kuat.

it's true. take it from me, i was in a girl school for the rest of my schooling years

and i can see the sisterly bond between girls are strong 

but,

some didn't survive the test of time. bit by bit, friendship between girls fade due to

1. boyfriend stealing, " that bitch stole my boyfriend ! "

2. the existence of backstabbers, " beware, she's a backstabber "

3. controversial status and pictures, " went to island, had so much fun. check out our pictures :) "

" OMG! that's her boyfriend hugging that bitch"

advice : stop this nonsense cat fights and to all the bitches out there who

love to take or touch other people's boyfriends, please stop. you wouldn't like

some crazy woman sweeping your dad away from your mum, won't you? and 

buat bodoh tuli je kalau ada orang cakap buruk pasal kita? diaorg berdosa, bukan kita kn? :)

boys, lelaki, kaum adam :) what can i say? well, the brotherly bond between dudes

are strangely tight. they are well put together like a pack of wolves *good ones :)*

everywhere at the mamak stalls, malls and special hangout places, you can see a

group of guys talking and having so much fun debating about their football teams and 

whatnots. they pick on each other, play pranks and not to forget, sports!

walaupun begitu, disangka panas sampai ke petang, hujan di tengahari * i think *

guys and dudes do fight. im not a guy so i don't know what they tend to fight about.

my guess is, " lu cilok awek gua! ", stealing other guy's girlfriends.

advice : *really, to them too?* stop hitting each other. stick with your usual 

" aku bet arsenal menang malam nanti " sports betting okay? * im supporting arsenal

because my love is :)*

 yes, you see the photo you can guess. couples :)

bercinta merangkumi berkawan juga. tak semestinya kita bercinta, kita tak berkawan.

kadang-kandang, kita niat nak berkawan je. tengok-tengok, jadi couple plak.

ada yang niat nak couple je, tengok-tengok jadi kawan plak.

you can't force love, you can only embrace it. by embracing it, you can maintain you relationship

longer than before. understanding is the key to a wholesome relationship.

but,

jealousy waits for no man. it's just come when one of the partners had contact with their 

opposite sex. yes, then comes the, " can you stop hagging out with her? " or " why he likes to

comment your pictures? " or " i don't like you seeing him all the time ".

then, comes the, " im breaking up with you " or " choose between  her or me " or

" if you like him so much, why don't you couple with him instead? "

advice : im not a perfect person and i do mistakes in relationships. don't attend to fight, please

do slow talk over with your partner at that very instant. remember the time you liked each 

other  and remembering the happy times helps to mend the present problems. please love

your partner. Allah meant to put you and your partner together.

so you see, in any relationship between gals and girls or guys and dudes and even

boyfee and girlfee, trouble tends to hover over and rain challenges. that is the

way life is. Allah didn't create the world just for His ummats to have fun. Allah create it so

that we tend to unite ourselves with the ummats He creates and build a strong bond.

Imam Ali Reza (a.s.) elucidates,

‘One who takes up a friend to please Allah, has reserved for himself a house in Paradise.’

(Amaalie Tusi vol. 1 p. 82) 

so i end this with,